Everything happens for a reason. A person acts something. In a relationship, all the things that take place have their roots or reasons. Cheating, for example, has its roots. This is done because there are things that trigger it. Cheating occurs as an accident. When your partner is avoiding or become cold, try to find the reasons. Do not just sit and wonder why it’s happening. There is a reason behind it. It’s not necessarily their fault, but it’s there. Your task is to find out the reason. Check the following reasons why a man is avoiding his wife.
Work and Stress
If a man is experiencing new workplace changes or other stressful events surrounding work, finances or daily challenges he may just feel overwhelmed and want to “get away” from everyone else around him. Although this is not a solution, understanding why your man is avoiding you and is upset will help you with approaching him to solve any issues of avoidance and being ignored. Stressful and long days can make just about anyone want to retreat away from the world to just re-energize and feel better.
Men are not very much open with their problems. Most of the time they just keep their troubles and burden for themselves. They have the notion that when they show they are troubled, they are weak. When they have work-related problems or any other kinds and they don’t want to open up, they have the tendency to avoid their woman to avoid confrontation.
Your man may be experiencing a new life issue or problem that you are unaware of, including unhealthy addictions (such as gambling, drinking or smoking), or he may have picked up a new hobby or interest you do not know about. If he is avoiding you at home, leaving the house for few hours at a time or suddenly seems to have an entirely new attitude, he is more than likely hiding some aspect of his life from you. [Read: Top 10 Reasons You are Not Married Yet]
No excitement in Relationship
After being in a relationship for some time, he feels that he does not miss you when you are not around and there is something lost between the two of you. [Read: Tips for Women to be More Wild in Bed]. If you are still in love and he sees the magic ebbing away from your bond, you need to talk to him and see if you can make it right.
Not many couples can pull this off; it requires patience and commitment from both ends. If he is not okay with a long distance relationship, he may just not tell you. So, he does not answer your calls, is always very busy and caught up in work or there is “network issue.” [Read: How to Maintain Strong Long Distance Relationship Everlasting]. These could be excuses to break up with you by avoiding you.
The man in your life may be experiencing what many consider to be a “midlife crisis.” Whether he is going through a recent career change or a recent loss of friendship or a loved one, he may be avoiding you due to his overwhelming thoughts and feelings about the direction and path of his current lifestyle. Talking with the man in your life about any upsetting feelings or life changes he is considering is a way to open him up to discussing why he may be avoiding you.
If you had to spend the rest of your life with one of the characters from A. A. Milne’s Winnie-the-Pooh stories, chances are good that Eeyore would be at the bottom of your list. He’s gloomy and pessimistic all the time. People like that stop being enjoyable company pretty fast. If you’ve got a “glass-half-empty” outlook on life, you may be your own worst enemy when it comes to dating.
Believe it or not, it isn’t much fun to watch someone sit on a couch and play video games. Or to simply “hang out” all the time with someone who never has an answer to the question, “What would you like to do?” To be interesting, it helps to be interested in more than passing the time. If someone is inert, inducing yawns from potential suitors, it’s no wonder the phone doesn’t ring more often.
You Spend a Lot of Money
Hey, times are tough. He has to cut corners. His hand does not require expensive foreplay such as roses, sushi and La Crema chardonnay. His accountant advised him to rebuild his credit by sticking to solo nights in a dive bar with his nutritious dinner of happy hour draft beer and popcorn. [Read; Facts to Consider Before Moving in With Boyfriend or Girlfriend]
He needs to go to work, but you want him to stay at home with you instead. He wants to hang out with his friends, but you want him to hang with you instead. You need him to be around you constantly, and are unjustifiably possessive over him, by trying to decide for him where he should be, and when, based on how you feel in the moment.
You are also Changed
Remember that sexy number you were wearing? Those high boots with your designer jeans tucked inside them. That pink lace thong. The plunging neckline. Where did they go? Yes, you look cute in sweatpants, flip-flops and a trucker cap, but then again you should look like beautiful woman.
You Don’t Compromise
It’s all or nothing, black and white thinking…. But the problem is, that all of his needs or any consideration for his circumstances are pushed aside with this kind of mindset. Just because you feel like you need something, otherwise your world will crash and burn; does not mean that you always get to have your way, and do what you want, and have him comply always; otherwise you make him feel guilty. In a relationship, everyone has to GIVE and take….which means you have to be willing to push some of your own needs or circumstances aside when he needs it too, instead of always being uncompromising.