What are the signs that he’s married? Today, in the age of internet dating, it is difficult to know whether the man is married or not! When you date someone online, it’s easy to date a man who is married without even realizing it. If you are having long distance romance, [Read: How to Maintain Strong Long Distance Relationship], then it is even easier. There are women out there who are guilty of this kind of crap too, but right now, let’s focus on
men. I want to look at 10 signs she married. Here are some signs that you need to take note if you’re still dating. I will not deal with the most obvious, is that you have never been to his house.
You Have His Cell Number Only
If the man you are dating is married, then he must be a clever person. He knows that you’re finally going to get a whiff of that wedding ring, and when you do, he does not want you to call him in the middle of the night. His seven children have school in the morning, and the woman looks shit when she does not get a proper night’s sleep. Girlfriend, if you do not have a his land line number, he is definitely hiding something.
Not Available on Weekends / Vacations
Married men can not get away from their wives and families on special events or days like Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year, Easter, Fourth of July etc. You may not even find him with you on your birthday. Nor will you be invited to special events in his life. That is reserved for his spouse.
You Never Visited His Home
If you are always meeting the guy somewhere outside or you have always been invited him to your place and he never takes you to his home then he might not live alone or does not want to take you there and meet his kids and wife. There should be no reason to be constantly going out with a guy after say a month or two, and you have no idea where he lives. The next time you’re out, suggests going home for some “fun”. [Read: Facts to Consider Before Moving in With Boyfriend or Girlfriend]. Not many men refuse that offer. But if the “fun” always takes place in your house, that means there is something in his home that he does not want you to see. Now, he might just think you are crazy and only considers him a jump and just do not want to be lurking. But more than likely, if you have never been in his crib, he is engaged to someone else and you’re a side piece.
Sometimes He Doesn’t Attend Your Cell Phone
Secrecy is paramount to the man who is married but still appears as the single. If your new lover is usually behaves this way in front of you, often avoids picking up your calls whether he works in espionage. He surely is married.
He Always Pays in Cash
Sure, you just may be dating Mr. Moneybags, a man who seems to always have at least a couple hundred dollars in cash a few at any given time. That’s great. But if your new love seems to always pay for everything in cash, and does not use cards because he does not want his wife to look over the accounts of the credit cards and wonder why you spent $ 200 at a French restaurant luxury in the day he said he was working late.
Won’t Add You on Facebook
If a guy does not make it easy for you to find him on Facebook, or encouraging you not to look for him, then there is a good chance that he is in fact married or at least he is hiding something. Obviously Facebook offers a great way for a woman to check up on her husband and is obviously a guy who is married would not want his ‘lover’ to know all about him via facebook. [Read: Most Common Reasons why Relationships Fail]
If a patch of lighter skin on the ring finger is there then this should be really sure that it requires to get a good look for a witness sign. A slightly different method to achieve the same purpose, but is holding hands with him and “feel” about that finger. If you feel more soft, waxy than the rest of your skin – then you normally wear a ring there.
Try to Meet His Friends
At some point, usually early in a relationship, you should probably have the opportunity to meet some of the friends of the person you are dating. Otherwise, he may be hiding from you. And will not let you meet his friends as he dose not want you to know about his marital / personal life.
Many married men who are working in a State can have his wife and children in another state. Now, when he has all the time in the world, he would have no problem playing the dating game. Do you have a dating plan, as he will go away for a weekend every two weeks or so? If he is divorced and traveling to see his children, this may seem a valid reason. But you can contact him at any time you want whe
And if he’s really into you, perhaps you could join him sometime in his hometown. If he feels uncomfortable about meeting their children, then you could tag a friend along and spend the weekend with his friend and catch up for lunch with her boyfriend at the neighborhood restaurant. Sounds simple, but it will not seem so simple, if he is happily married and not divorced.
Afraid of Recognition
If your boyfriend becomes much more distant in public that when the two are alone, you could be afraid of recognition. A man cheats never know when you will meet a relative or his wife. Keep your distance from you in public makes it less likely that people see you as a couple.