Does she wants to marry you? It’s not always easy to tell, because, frankly, sometimes girls don’t give much away, or are averse to talking about the subject, preferring to be surprised when their man gets up the nerve to pop the question. Women are unpredictable. Yes, they are. They can be emotional, irrational and illogical. But it can also be loving, caring and understanding. And men can not live without them. Admit it! You simply can not get enough of women. A woman needs a man by her side as well, which apparently leads to the formation of life we call marriage. However, there is a common misconception that women are well planned to be married and say “YES!” Even before starting to ask the big question. But if you are smart, you will be identified as a myth and start doing more serious questions and look for signs. Well, one thing is sure, women are really good at giving advice. It’s just a matter of finding the tracks and would have the answer you’re looking for. Few given sings on how to know if your girlfriend wants to marry you can help you figure it out.
Clear Signs to Tell She Wants to Marry You
So, here are some of the clearest signs that a woman cutting is really ready to get married:
Does She Change Marriage Topic or Not?
Now this one is a serious clue. If when others speak of marriage, for whatever reason, she looks away, or excuses herself, than that’s a sign she’s uncomfortable with the whole topic. If on the other hand, she smiles and nods and goes along with whatever is being said, and then, at some point, looks away from them, at you, and her eyes look pretty soft, and she looks sort of happy, yet pensive, then the odds are good that she is wondering if and when you ever plan to pop the question, so she can say yes.
She talks about the good and bad of marriage, the ‘good’ being mentioned several times more than the bad. She tells you about her ideas of a successful long-term relationship, and that she’d like to be in one someday. If she is really up and ready for it, you’d know by the way she fondly refers to marriage as being a bond that lasts forever. Now, if she is not ready, she’d probably avoid the entire discussion where marriage comes up and would not want to say anything about it. Avoidance in the matter is one of the crucial signs that she is not ready for marriage, yet.
She Likes Your Company
If she likes to be with you, and says she’d like to be with you for a lifetime, then surely she gives the biggest clue of marrying you. She cleans your room, wash your dishes, or setting your clothes right. She even cooks for you. Sometimes she nags at you (like a typical wife would) because you just cannot keep your living room clean, despite all her subtle efforts. But she then sets the room right (again, like a typical wife). These are obvious signs that she really wants to live with you, and, supposedly, as being your wife. [Read: 10 Biggest Secrets to a Happy Married Life]
Note Her Emotions
This could be a very subtle clue, so you would have to be seriously paying attention. Or you might notice when the two of you talk about the future, or about how much you like being together or weddings, babies or anything really that might have to do with the two of you spending the rest of your lives together, and she starts to play with the rings on her fingers; if she has them, of course. If not, she might actually start rubbing her finger where that special ring is supposed to go. That would probably be a pretty good clue, don’t you think?
Makes Future Plans
If she’s been using ‘we’ instead of ‘I’ when talking about the future, chances are that she already has a vision of your life together as a couple. She asks about your future plans, shows genuine concerns regarding your work life and where it is leading, and also gives you suggestions on what would be the best thing to do next. She perhaps even consults you for advice on her career and life ahead. Chances are that she has perhaps set her mind on marrying you.
Watching Wedding Shows!
Your girlfriend watches shows with wedding themes and she even forces you to sit and watch them with her, cuddling close to you and going ‘aw’ or ‘it’s so sweet’. You may (or may not) roll your eyes, but hers are filled with sparkles and the excitement of planning her own wedding day. This is a clear sign she wants to get married.
During one of your mushy discussions, your girlfriend happily says you are husband material and compliments you on your work, ethic, personality, how sweet or romantic you are, etc. She imagines growing old with you, accepting your future gray hair, protruding belly and all. This is an indication she wants to get married with you.
With all these signs appearing from time to time, together with its forecast of when it is building the big question, do not get too excited or speed up the procedure. Take time to reflect on the tracks that you have been giving and thinking about things that you mentioned – a special romantic fantasy (suggesting how he would like to propose), or a place she loves very much (suggesting that she wants to be with you at the time). If she has mentioned her preference rings, something like “I do not like huge stones in the rings” – or something like that, make sure you have made a note. After all, the more detailed the environment and the atmosphere is, more attention will be given to make sure everything is perfect (especially the ring), the more likely that it will stand on a pedestal and say ‘I do’ to you, someday.