We have already discussed that How to Start Conversation with Girl, so we should also be knowing that how to go about it. Have you ever walked into a room and immediately found yourself struck by the beauty standing in the room? Do you suffer from lack of confidence and have trouble talking to girls? You never know what to say or even how to approach a girl? Do they seem like strangers to you and therefore out of reach? Ever wondered how to talk to a girl that you like in a time like this? If you just start talking to a girl, you can bet it is to decide whether it wants to continue the conversation, or look for the next guy. Your chance to make a good impression is short and you have to make every second count.
If you start by asking annoying questions like “What is your name?” or “Where are you from?” or “Where do you go to school / where do you work?” then the conversation may prove to be short-lived. The girls approached by guys who ask these kinds of questions all the time and if you say the same thing then you know what? She’ll think you’re just another guy “random” do this “random guy” do. Many guys make the mistake of thinking they need to be nice to the girl, or be rich, or intelligent, or something else. These things all matter a little (and with a lot more depth), but what is most important at the beginning is that you are interesting.
How can you be really interesting to someone you’ve never met? Everyone has their go-to stories, jokes, games, or one-liners. The guys who are naturally successful with a girl (aka “natural”) call it “using their best stuff.” For guys who have learned to be the best pickup artists in the world, we call them routines . You can find thousands of large, fast, interesting things to say to attract the attention of a girl very early research routines. It is not memory, look at the structure and model of the the above pick up artists in the world is to say and do when they meet women, and you’ll see how to do it yourself with your own equipment in no time.
1 – If You’re Shy.
[Read: 5 Reasons Why Women Don’t Like Shy Men] You probably are if you’re reading this, before you say a word to the girl, you say one thing. The girls are also human beings. They are not goddesses and mystical beings. They are not better than you. They are just as ordinary or extraordinary you are. You say that and try to believe it, because it’s true. There is nobody on this earth that is more special than you are. We are all created equal, regardless of looks, wealth or level of confidence yet. None of us is not better than the other. We’re just different.
2 – Introduce Yourself.
Tell him your name and maybe what you do in life. Shake his hand. This will be your idea to tell him that you have finished talking and are now ready to listen.
3 – Listen to Her.
Hear not only the words, but the meaning. Repeat their name in your head repeatedly. Think of a lung device if you must. This is a good thing to remember his name. This allows you to get a lot of points in the ledger anyone.
4 – Ask About Her Personal Details.
It is possible that it could make things interesting. If it does not tell you when it presents itself, ask. If she seems reluctant to talk about his job or career, try to ask about his hobbies.
5 – Listen to Her.
This is very important. In addition, when listening, understanding that you are listening by looking at it. Take mental notes so that you have something to ask about when it is your turn to speak again.
6 -Take Your Turn to Speak.
When she finished speaking and signals, it is your turn to speak (taking a sip of her drink or take a closer look in the eyes, etc.), you must either answer all questions that she asked or pretend she asked and talk a little bit about yourself. Tell him some two or three things about you. Keep each court. Try to talk in a positive way. If she is interested in any of them, she asked.
7 -Ask Specific Questions.
Ask more specific questions about some of the things she told you, or ask new questions on everything else, like how she was sucked into the area, or if she loves her work, etc.
8 -Don’t Discuss Common Problems.
When you ask questions or give answers, try to avoid common problems such as the controversial political, religious or moral subjects. The chances are slim that both of you agree on a large portion of it and none of them are suitable for the first type of meeting conversations, [Read: How to Start a Winning Conversation with Someone You Meet]. Also, try to avoid topics that obviously dry little or no people will find interesting. Finally, at all costs avoid too personal. Do not ask him questions about health or physical problems for women. Do not ask me exactly where they live or work. Do not ask questions about his past relationships. Also, do not say all these things about you. None of these topics are appropriate for a first conversation with a girl.
9 – Let Her Open Up.
Listen to what she has to say. Most people, men and women have much to say when asked about themselves. Listen also indices. Does his voice go higher or lower when it comes to certain subjects? If this is the case, it usually means that it is something she cares about, either positively or negatively. It is your duty to discern and decide if this is something she might want to talk.
10 – Compliment Her.
When the time comes to enter the conversation, saying that it was to meet and thank her for talking with you. If you feel the conversation went well, and I would talk to him again some time, let him know. If you want to ask her out, just do it. Do not cover or have fun with it. Be honest and frank, then let her go.