How can you really know if you’ve met “the one”? hopefuly, most of you guys who are serious about their relationship, must be interested to know the confirmation signs that they have finaly found “The One” they were waiting for. Unfortunately, it is not a litmus test foolproof, but it can be pretty confident in your relationship if you notice the following nine symptoms that are characteristic of a very special connection between two people.
After wading through years of dating, you’ve finally found the right one (you think). You feel kind of like you’ve survived the dating wars: Peace is at hand with someone you adore … and who adores you. How do you know that your relationship can go the distance? Will it turn into a marriage? Do you even want it so?
How to Know You Have Met the Right One
Love is Unconditional
Your unconditional love for your partner is like no other. You probably have a certain habit, quality, or “baggage” that could be an ultimatum for your relationship. You tend to do all those things for your partner that you have never done before with any other person. Your eternal love, sincerety and extreme attention towards your girlfriend/boyfriend is one of the signs that you have found the true love.
One of you may be an extrovert, and the other an introvert. One person is a Type A and the other is more passive. While these glaring differences may lead to conflict at times, these opposing temperaments often bring balance. If you are the Yin to your mate’s Yang or vice versa, you will better have your chances of achieving a harmonious relationship. But, bear in mind these differing character traits should serve to create a well-rounded whole relationship. Beware if your respective tendencies are just too different to ever make the puzzle pieces fit.
When there is a deep connection between two people, each knows what the other wants and needs. [Read: fHow to Tell Your Relationship is Happy and Healthy]. So ask yourself this question about the person in your life: You know what it takes to make him or her happy? Think, moment to moment problems on children, like that person likes to eat and what kind of back rub he or she enjoys.
Also, think about larger issues as well: Do you know how to help relieve the stress? Can you bring it to talk about your dreams and visions for the future? When she/he is struggling at work or with a family problem, can you help her/him get through the storm and find the sun again? And as important, does your partner know how to do this for you too? If so, that’s another reason to believe that you’ve found “The One”.
There is a sense of trust and loyalty. You know your partner will be there for you through thick and thin and can be counted on. You want to share everything with this person- the good and the bad stuff. You are always excited to see that person walk in the door.
Sometimes it’s that easy. You feel like your partner understands some essential part of you that you can’t explain or articulate. It’s a warm, comfortable feeling—and one you should have with the person you marry.
Discussing Financial Matters
These days, love isn’t enough when you’re thinking about marriage or being in a long-term commitment. Finances are also needed. A lot of couples actually divorce or separate because they couldn’t just agree on how to save up cash or manage credit card debts. Others feel betrayed with their partner’s lack of openness when it comes to their income. [How to Tell Your Relationship is Happy]. Surely, you’ll fight about money, but both of you are mature enough to settle it with diplomacy.
Body and Mind Connection
Our well being relies on the fact that all parts of us, spirit, mind and body, are all working together in harmony. What affects one, affects all three. When one does not have a balance of spirit mind and body, everything in your lives seems to be off. When negative experiences come into our lives, they have an impact not only on our mind, but on our spirit and body. Now, instead of having one problem in one area, you find you have issues in every area. When you are on the right path, your spirit, mind and body all are influenced in a positive way. When you are doing the right things and walking in the path of your personal truth, you can keep from drawing negativity into your life. If you wish to find a true sense of inner peace, you must be balanced in the spirit, mind, and body with eachother.
Feeling Like Home
There is a sense of comfort and a familiarity. The word recognition comes up as knowing that this person is the one. It’s like you have known the person your whole life. It’s so easy to talk to one another.
When these signs are in place, then you naturally want to take the next step toward marriage. The only relationship problems would halt progress one or both listening to their inner fears and various external circumstances beyond their control, such as a sick parent or any other tragedy.