There is a fine line between clingy and a loving girlfriend. But sometimes, even the best of us can become a clingy girlfriend without really noticing. Being a clingy girlfriend is not a bad thing, as long as you know where to draw the limit line. The most confusing part about the clingy person is that is subjective. You ex boyfriend may think you were clingy, [Read: How Not to be a Clingy Girlfriend] while a new boyfriend may think you’re far away being clingy!
Signs You are Clingy Girlfriend
You talk for Hours
You may love to curl up in bed and talk to him on the phone for hours every night. Your man may love to do that at the beginning of the relationship, but the novelty of the relationship begins to fade and love sits in a mature and happy zone, he may want to reduce the duration of the call. This does not mean he loves you less, [Read: Signs Your Boyfriend Truly Loves You]. It just means he’s ready to return to normal life when he had other things to do at night. If your boyfriend hints about wanting to spend less time on the phone, do not force him to talk to you. Instead, keep your calls short and hang for a few days, even before he wants to hang. It’ll make him miss you more!
Focus on Marriage
When you’re in a long term relationship, both men and women are constantly thinking of the word “Marriage”. [Read: Top 10 Reasons You are Not Married Yet]. Traditionally, of course, the man is going to propose to the woman and the woman waits patiently for the magic moment. However, some women cannot muster the patience and constantly reminds him that he will marry. [Signs Your Boyfriend is Serious and He Wants to Marry You]. This might irritate him. If this is something that is most important to you, then you face your man directly. He will respect you more for it and not come off as needy or clingy.
You are Over Doing
Like you, your man likes to do things not only to you but to do things for himself. You offer to do something, as you prepared a lunch or clean your room, and refuses, but still does it anyway. Things like this you can see the first few times, but after a while they get old quickly. Your boy is going to feel like you’re losing your independence. Stay normal in doing routine work. Keep it in a balance way.
You Don’t Give Him Space
If you really like or love someone who is normal to want to be with you as much as possible, but it is important to let him have some space. [Read: How to Give Space to Your Boyfriend]. If your new boyfriend wants to go hang out, let him go. Do not start nagging and asking thousands of questions like a detective, and do not call or text throughout the night to see what he is doing. Give them the time to miss you. If you treat your partner as a prisoner, there is a good chance that he will get tired and want even more time away from you.
You Plan Everything at Own
If you have stopped making plans to do things on your own or with your other friends to wait to see what your boyfriend is doing, you have probably become a clingy girlfriend. In order to ensure a healthy relationship, it is necessary to maintain a life that is independent of the person you are dating. This means that you must proactively plan activities, both for yourself and your friends without having to wait to see if your boyfriend wants to go out that night. One particular sign that is a problem is if you have left to spend time with close friends. You can still stay close to your boyfriend and spend a few nights one month apart.